Khalid Hadhramout خالد حضرموت notes

"Yã àyyuhal-ladhina àmanuu idhã nuudyya liš-šalãtii min yumil-jumuâatii fasâuu ilã dhikril-Lahii wa-dharul-bayyâ, dhãlikum khairun lakum in kuntum tâlamūn." "O u who believe! When the call is proclaimed 4 the prayer on Friday, come 2 the rememberance of Allah & leave off all businesses. That is better 4 u if u did but know." [Ch.62:9].
"Bismika Allãhumma àmutuu wa-àhyyã" "In Ur name O Allah, I live & die." A Blessing Friday 4 all... Wassalamuâlaikum warahmatullahii wabarakatuh... Good Night : ).

Abu Hurrairah (May Allah be pleased with him) narrated Allah's Messenger (PBUH) as saying: "The best day on which the sun has risen is Friday; on it, Adam was created. On it, he was made 2 enter Paradise. On it, he was expelled from it & the Last Hour will take place on no day other than Friday." [Muslim]

"Rabbanã ãtinã fid-duniã hasanatan wafil-ãkhiratii hasanatan wa-qinã âdhãban-nãr." "O our Lord, grant us the best in this life & protect us from the punishment of the Fire." [Ch.2:201] ALLÃHUMMA ÃMIN YARABAL ÂÃLAMIN!

"O my uncle! By Allah if they put the sun in my right hand & the moon in my left on condition that I abandon this (i.e. Islam), until Allah has made me victorious, or I perish therein, I would not abandon it." [Allah's Messenger (PBUH) to his uncle Abu Talib]

"Yã hayyuu yã qayyumuu birahmatika àstaghiithuu àšlihlii shaànii kullahuu walã takilnii illã nafsii tarfata âyin." "O Ever-Living, O Self-Subsisting & Supporter of all, by Ur mercy I seek assistance, rectify 4 me all of my affairs & don't leave me 2 myself, even 4 the blink of an eye." AMIN!

Bismillah: "We rise upon the fitrah of Islam, & the word of pure faith, & upon the religion of our Prophet Muhammad & the religion of our forefather Ibrahiim, who was a Muslim & of a true faith & was not of those who associate others with Allah." Assalamuâlaikum.. Good Morning : )

"Bismika Rabbii wadhaâtuu janbii wabika àrfaâuhuu fa'in àmsakta nafsii farhamhã wa-in àrsaltahã fahfazh-hã bimã tahfazhuu bihii ibadikaš-šãlihiin" "In Ur my Lord, I lie down & in Ur name I rise, so if U should take my soul, then have mercy upon it, & if should return my soul, then protect in the manner U do so with Ur righteous servants." AMIN! Wassalamuâlaikum WB...Good Night : )

Bismillãhii Arrahmãnir-Rahiim:"Walâšr. Innal insãna lafii khusr. Illal-ladhiina àmanuu wa âmiluuš-šalihatii wa tawašuu bil-haqqii wa tawašuu biš-šabr." In The Name of Allah, The Most Gracious, The Most Merciful:"By the time. Verily man is in loss. Except those who believe & do righteous good deeds & recommend 1another 2 the truth & recommend 1another 2 patience." (Ch.103)

"Subhãnaka wa-bihamdika lã ilãha illa ànta àstaghfiruka wa-àtubuu ilayk." "How perfect U r & I praise U. None has the right 2 be worshipped except U, I seek Ur 4giveness & turn in repentance 2 U."

Al Qur'an 24:30-31

Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim

It is ordered by Allah in al Qur'an -

''Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allâh is All-Aware of what they do. '' ( Al Qur'an 24:30 )
And the same thing said for women in 24:31 in addition of -

''And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.) and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent, and to draw their veils all over Juyubihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms, etc.) and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband’s fathers, their sons, their husband’s sons, their brothers or their brother’s sons, or their sister’s sons, or their (Muslim) women (i.e. their sisters in Islâm), or the (female) slaves whom their right hands possess, or old male servants who lack vigour, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. And all of you beg Allâh to forgive you all, O believers, that you may be successful.'' ( Al Qur'an 24:31 )

so where its said to lower the gaze, you cant think about a date and a date understood as today's appointment between a girl and a boy is far away and excluded. and its farj (must be done ) for our sisters to make cover themselves properly .

Allah's apostle said once , '' have a look the woman before marrying her . because its for whole life . ''
so that means Islam gives permission to meet a girl only when your intention is marriage. Allah's apostle said to have a look before marrying that is understood as you may see the girl before marriage but surely not in a very indecent way. you may talk to the girl if u want where a third person should be present who will assure sincerity and decency in meeting as Allah's messenger said this as well , '' no man is alone with a woman but the Shaytaan is the third one present. ''

its forbidden in Islam to love someone intentionally out of mariage or have a boyfriend or girl friend . but if you like someone or choose someone for marriage or fall in love with someone accendently or by chance or unconsciously, then you should follow islamic marriage rules. if you wanna know his or her opinion,u shouldnt do that directly by urself. its recommended to do so by a third person so that you may avoid any unexpected or embarrassing situation. and of course let your parents know the matter, they will take care of it and do the rest.
now in case of failure of marriage for any reason, you should try to forget him / her n not keeping contact with the person . and belive that whatever Allah did, its for good. be patient and depend on Allah. inshallah you will find the right one for yourself by the grace of Allah. whatever happens, we should follow Islamic rules and believe that its for our good.

Islam gives the best solutions for us . Islam is best and beautiful !! Alhamdulillah . oh Allah ! guide us rightly, make us firm & steady , pardon us & bless us abundantly .

Hadith 742

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) reported that the devil said to God: "I shall continue to lead Thy servants astray as long as their spirits are in their bodies." And God replied: "(Then) I shall continue to pardon them as long as they ask My forgiveness." - Al-Tirmidhi, Hadith 742